Monday, August 17, 2009

Making Plans

As a rule of thumb, do not make any plans with someone farther in the future than half the length of the relationship. This excludes dinner and dates and things of that nature, of course. I am talking about serious plans, like a road trip, concert, or pretty much anything that you would not be able to meet the person there. This is just creepy. For instance, if you have been seeing someone for a few weeks, and it is going alright, and then you ask them to go to a wedding with you in two months, this will probably freak them out. So, just don't do it! And besides, going to weddings stag is a great way to pick up girls: they are horny and lonely and just want to be with someone. Getting back on track, you do not want to get someone you are just starting to see thinking about the future. This is, as I said, just going to make them freak out! Even if you could be with them that far in the future, getting them thinking about 'the future' may prevent that from happening. So, for serious, keep it casual, and when it gets closer to the event that you were planning on going to with them, just ask them then.

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